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It’s just so demoralising losing match after match. What can I do to
turn things around?
Yes, it
can be a bit depressing when you’re on an extended match-losing
streak. Particularly when you’ve hit up so well, have a basic game
plan worked out, and are playing with your regular dubs partner. And
you know you’re more than competitive with your opposition yet at
the end of the match, it’s them at the net smiling, waiting to shake
hands – and you’re left wondering what went wrong??
The
short answer: match play is a ‘mental game’ and much different from
practice play and hitting where there’s nothing on the line. Match
play is about a competitive mindset and concentration – attention to
the ball. It’s not about executing strokes; it’s about competing,
and keeping your mind under control.
Most
hitters fixate on hitting the shot right, and worrying about what
the opposition’s latest comment on a line call really meant,
and whether they’ll screw the shot up if they go for the volley,
miss it and infuriate their partner, etc, etc, etc. That, in the
end, is not really playing a match. Instead you’re messing about
inside your head and not really focusing on the moment at all! Or
rather, you’re letting your opponents mess with your head and making
your life on a tennis court a ‘self-fulfilling prophecy’, albeit a
negative one.
Many
years ago, a guy named Tim Gallwey wrote a book called the “Inner
Game of Tennis”. He wrote about Self 1 and Self 2 – the thinking
brain (the one that messes with your head) and the unconscious mind
(the one that gets you into the ‘zone’). Since that time, tennis
psychology has come a long way. Just watch the pattern behaviors of
Sharapova, Nadal, and Djokovic. Each has his or her own calming
routine, with Djokovic’s 20+ ball bounce routine being the epitome.
He has been taught to always be settled as much as possible before
starting a point.
OK, you
say, can I do this when I'm really frustrated? Well, yes you can, if
you can take your ‘mental pulse’. I have a good friend in California
who was surprised to learn that his physical pulse jumped 20 points
when he made an error. Imagine the amount of cortisol being injected
into his system and hyping him up! With a racing pulse he just
wasn’t ready to play the next several points. We settled on a simple
psych approach of putting a name (‘Hyde’) to his behaviour to help
him recognize when he was in this state, and this helped him get
back to his more competitive ‘Jekyll’ mode.
And
yes, while it may take some time to learn how to take your ‘mental
pulse’, it will certainly pay dividends in improving your ability to
compete. You may not win every match but at least you’ll gain
satisfaction in knowing that you didn’t beat yourself.
So hang
in there, and eventually you’ll have a breakthrough at some point in
your mental game and take your competitive game to the next level.
And you’ll get a bonus, a life skill!
(c) Rob Muir USPTA
February 08, 2012 |